ALPHABET OF PRIDE: LGBTQQIA

L is for LESBIAN
Any self-identified woman who is emotionally, physically, and/or sexually attracted to women and calls herself a lesbian is one.

G is for GAY
Any self-identified man who is emotionally, physically, and/or sexually attracted to men and calls himself calls himself a gay man is one. Some women also identify as gay, preferring the term to lesbian.

B is for BISEXUAL
Anyone who is attracted to men and women and identifies as such is bisexual or bi.

T is for TRANSGENDER
Anyone whose gender identity (sense of themselves as a man, a woman, or something else), gender expression or behavior is different from what is traditionally associated with their biological sex and who identifies as transgender. This umbrella term includes people who have altered or want to alter their bodies and/or selfpresentation to match their gender (also called transsexuals), and people who do not want to change their bodies but who nonetheless transgress gender boundaries in some way (for example: drag queens and drag kings, crossdressers, etc.) Remember: A person who is transgender can be of any sexual orientation.

Q is for QUEER
While the word “queer” continues to be used by some people as an insult, others have reclaimed it as a way to unapologetically identify with an alternative sexuality, identity and politics.

Q is also for QUESTIONING
Questioning is very common when it comes to issues as complex as sexuality and gender. It is okay not to know what you think or where you fit. Just remember: you are not alone and there are many resources to help you.

I is for INTERSEX
Anyone born with sexual traits (chromosomes, anatomy, hormones) not considered “standard” for either males or females is intersex. Intersex people can be of any sexual orientation and may or may not also identify as transgender, though you will find that the “I” is often subsumed in the “T” as in the frequently-used “LGBT.”

A is for ALLY
Anyone who does not identify as a member of a particular minority group but advocates for equality, integration and understanding of that group is an ally.

Note:

The above words represent some but not all of the words people today use to describe their sexual and gender identities. Language can vary widely by culture and other factors. It is always better to ask than to assume. It is also helpful to remember that people at different stages of coming out may or may not be comfortable sharing their identification with you. This brochure will use LGBTQ as an umbrella term intended to be fully inclusive but not too cumbersome.